Either I've been hiding under a rock, or my observations are correct. Seems like in the space of about 3 years everyone went from being a drug dealer/rapper to a pimp. Girls are no longer concerned with public image or public opinion so stripping and escorting have become a common and normal occurrence. Let's be clear: I knock NO ONE'S hustle. By all means get ya paper. But a recent conversation with my close friends, all of whom are in this sex industry, has brought a particular (perhaps controversial) topic to light: girls who date pimps.
Now, let's not confuse this with niggaz who pimp their girlfriend. Those aren't real pimps (according to the Toronto Pimp Legion of Doom). A nigga who pimps his girlfriend probably has only her working for him, perhaps just to fund whatever other shit he's doing (usually drugs, studio time or both). I'm talking about established PIs with a roster of females on his team.
At first, before actually asking the important questions and discussing the subject with these gentlemen and the smarter females involved, I saw no reason why a man of leisure couldn't have a girlfriend to himself. A girl who wasn't working for him, but did all the girlfriendly duties. Basically a square bitch. Why shouldn't you be able to have a girlfriend who doesn't pay you at the end of the day? Especially if you have other girls who do.
Truth is, having a square girlfriend isn't very pimply. It was said that doing such would be disrespectful to the game overall. Figure it like this if you will: a boss hires 10 people, 9 of whom work super hard day after day getting shit done, making the boss happy. In turn everything they may need or want is taken care of. Then that last employee doesn't work, but receives the same benefits as those busting their ass everyday. Yeah. It's like that. What you will have is nothing but disgruntled employees, who will begin to question their boss and where his head is at. In such a business as the one in question, that is detrimental.
To quote my older head:
"[Girls trying to date pimps] are focused on money and getting to the top. Sad part is, their love for money leads to the violent side of the game. Girls basically get with [pimps] for security and the fact they have a man who is about them. A real pimp don't date, has no girlfriends and don't fuck girls who don't pay him."
Just in case you thought that was a fluke answer, this next quote is from a dude younger than me (smart mother fucker):
"No such thing as girls dating pimps.. If he dating the bitch he aint no pi ... Doesn't make sense. Clear distinction between being live and being a square. Like police officers and firemen,". During our convo he laughed at the word "girlfriend" so many times I had to find a new word.
So what's your point Jamz? Simple. I'm seeing too many females out here bragging about their "boyfriends", talkin' all that "my man" shit like we all don't know what's really good. Girl, please. Your daddy ain't your boyfriend and you are fooling no one. A bottom bitch has never called herself her daddy's "girlfriend". For the other females who see these dudes in the club, all shiny and shit with their bottle, don't act surprised when he tells you wuddup. I had a girl literally tell me she couldn't see why she would have to work for him. You chose him because you like what you saw, now you ain't bout that life but you don't wanna stop talking to him, why? Because YOU are gonna be the one to change him? Girl please.
As a female I'm not supposed to advocate this type of thing. I know. I get it. But as always I'm about honesty and keeping it real. If you don't like something you just don't fuck with it. So don't think you gonna fuck with a nigga who manages females for a living and not be breaking him off. Every other female he fucks with puts paper in his hand. What's special about you?
Chuuuuch.
The Articulate Bitch
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