Sharing the Love

"Love is dope." - Someone from Black Twitter

When you enter the realm of love in whichever capacity, it can be the most satisfying feeling. You have someone who you're on an emotional level with, which is rare these days.

As with most positive things in our lives, when things are good we want to share them with those around us. We make a little extra in our paychecks maybe we share a bottle of wine with our friends or pay for dinner. We find a great new restaurant we bring our friends to try it too. We learn something amazing we teach our homies too. Bottom line is, we want to share the awesomeness. But what about our adventures in love? Should we share or keep the dopeness to ourselves?

Well for one, you have to pick and choose your audience. Some people are just too miserable to share your joy with, period. They will feign interest in what you're saying and give half hearted responses. They don't care about anything that has ever made you happy, they want you to tell them how crappy you feel so they can tell you how much crappier they feel. Stay away from these people in life, not just love.

Never ever ever tell a bitter bitch about your man/boyfriend/him. This girl is going to do nothing but tell you how all men ain't shit and how he's gonna do you dirty and all the nice things he's doing now are just part of his game. This poor bitch need some dick so bad you wish you had one to fuck her with. Make it worse this bitch will do some snake shit like fuck your man then be on some "I told you he wasn't shit" shit after.

An untrustworthy bitch is another girl you don't wanna share your relationshiptual details with. She will smile in your face and act like she's so happy for you all while She's scheming on how to get what you've got. This is probably the worst type of bitch. Sometimes this female deserves being fought.

Never, don't ever, tell another dude about a guy you're talking to or dating. I don't even agree with telling dudes in the imaginary "friend zone" about your relationships. There are only a few dudes in any female's life who truly wish to see her happy with someone else, an actual guy friend (who probably would still hit), or perhaps a relative. These are still difficult to spot, knowing their intentions before you spill the beans is key.

Lastly, never over-share. Even those people who do truly want to see you happy and don't mind you telling them tales will grow tired of hearing every petty detail that made you smile today. Be considerate and understand that sharing involves listening as well.

The Articulate Bitch